Cathy, thank you for sharing a heartfelt and honest tribute to your mom. I appreciate how your love for your mother shines through and your empathy in understanding her inability to move through her suffering and find more joy. Although I imagine it's comforting to know that in her last few years, in her way, she did. Beautiful.
I am happy for the joy she was able to find, and only wish she could have experienced more of it over the years. Thank you for your kind comment, Paulette - it's much appreciated.
Cathy, An incredibly poingnat piece. Thank you for sharing so honestly and vulnerably. It's so sad when people spend their whole life suffering. At least your Mom had a view pockets of joy.
Thank you, Sandra. I used to get frustrated that she did so little to resolve her suffering - especially so when I was old enough to be aware of those pockets of joy. From this vantage point, I believe she came here to experience exactly what she did, and I don’t need to understand it. But still, I can feel sad that those happy times did not extend longer for her.
Cathy, such a beautiful piece! While reading I could relate to aspects of my own relationship with my mother. Also what struck me were these snap shots of a life; the struggles, pain and beauty of it all. Thank you for sharing 🩷
Thank you, Rhaine. I have thought about these pieces of my mother’s life for so long but had not considered the beauty of it all. You have given me another lens from which to view it, and I greatly appreciate that!
You have a beautiful way of capturing people, of really seeing them. The word that came to mind is “heart clarity,” which I know is not a thing, but it’s what popped into my head as I read this piece. There is an effortless honesty in your writing that is also full of empathy. Those two attributes rarely come in a single package.
It does not feel like condolences are the right thing to offer in light of your story, so I will just wish you - and your mom - ever-deepening peace. xo
Oh Jamie, you so fill my heart! I will save this comment to come back to often. Thank you for sharing your insights and for understanding that condolences are not quite right in this situation. Deepening peace is a wish that is a noble one for us all.
Thank you for your amazing ability to move hearts as only you can do. You are quite wonderful!! --XX!!
Dear Kathy, thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with such open clarity. May you continue to be in peace knowing that she is no longer suffering and truly at peace and may your own memories heal as the peace goes deeper each day.
Cathy, this is a very thoughtful tribute to your Mother. It is an amazing turn of events in her life that she could be loved and caressed with loving gestures and gentle caring hands until she chose to go home to her Mom and sister. Bless your memories and bless your Mothers reunion in heaven. I'm sending loving hugs...always.
Thank you, Mary! I consider the love and nurturing Mom received the past few years as a spiritual and emotional healing for her. I’m happy she got to know what that feels like.
Thank you, Cathy.
Thank you, Cathy, for capturing your mother's life-- and her gentle passing-- with words. Sending a hug.
Hug received with great appreciation. Thank you, Joyce!
Cathy, thank you for sharing a heartfelt and honest tribute to your mom. I appreciate how your love for your mother shines through and your empathy in understanding her inability to move through her suffering and find more joy. Although I imagine it's comforting to know that in her last few years, in her way, she did. Beautiful.
I am happy for the joy she was able to find, and only wish she could have experienced more of it over the years. Thank you for your kind comment, Paulette - it's much appreciated.
Losing a parent provides us the opportunity for much contemplation. I lost mine six years ago. The writing is helpful.
I am sorry for your loss, Paulette. I agree that writing helps. It helps me clarify my thoughts.
Cathy- beautifully said; sending a big hug.
Thank you, Rosaria!
Cathy, An incredibly poingnat piece. Thank you for sharing so honestly and vulnerably. It's so sad when people spend their whole life suffering. At least your Mom had a view pockets of joy.
Thank you, Sandra. I used to get frustrated that she did so little to resolve her suffering - especially so when I was old enough to be aware of those pockets of joy. From this vantage point, I believe she came here to experience exactly what she did, and I don’t need to understand it. But still, I can feel sad that those happy times did not extend longer for her.
Cathy, such a beautiful piece! While reading I could relate to aspects of my own relationship with my mother. Also what struck me were these snap shots of a life; the struggles, pain and beauty of it all. Thank you for sharing 🩷
Thank you, Rhaine. I have thought about these pieces of my mother’s life for so long but had not considered the beauty of it all. You have given me another lens from which to view it, and I greatly appreciate that!
You have a beautiful way of capturing people, of really seeing them. The word that came to mind is “heart clarity,” which I know is not a thing, but it’s what popped into my head as I read this piece. There is an effortless honesty in your writing that is also full of empathy. Those two attributes rarely come in a single package.
It does not feel like condolences are the right thing to offer in light of your story, so I will just wish you - and your mom - ever-deepening peace. xo
Oh Jamie, you so fill my heart! I will save this comment to come back to often. Thank you for sharing your insights and for understanding that condolences are not quite right in this situation. Deepening peace is a wish that is a noble one for us all.
Thank you for your amazing ability to move hearts as only you can do. You are quite wonderful!! --XX!!
And, dear Cathy, may your wish for your mother come true🙏. Peace, love and joy to you!
Thank you so much, Robyn!!
Dear Kathy, thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with such open clarity. May you continue to be in peace knowing that she is no longer suffering and truly at peace and may your own memories heal as the peace goes deeper each day.
Thank you, Leslie - that is a beautiful!!
Truly beautiful. Love how you let the sadness be and focused on nurture for your mom and then joy! TY Cathy for sharing.
Thank you, Mo - this is so nice to read!!
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Beautiful writing. Thank you for sharing it.
Thank you, Aubrey!
Cathy, this is a very thoughtful tribute to your Mother. It is an amazing turn of events in her life that she could be loved and caressed with loving gestures and gentle caring hands until she chose to go home to her Mom and sister. Bless your memories and bless your Mothers reunion in heaven. I'm sending loving hugs...always.
Thank you, Mary! I consider the love and nurturing Mom received the past few years as a spiritual and emotional healing for her. I’m happy she got to know what that feels like.